Single parent dating problems
In short, if you are on the fence, it’s better to think about the possible negatives (and decide if you are willing to deal with them if they come up) before things get too serious and it becomes extremely hard to leave the relationship.Many single moms have been used or abused and then left to fend for themselves.This can cause them to go one of two ways: they become stronger women or they become weaker women. Stronger women will learn from the experience and not be willing to accept any guy who treats her poorly into her life anymore.She will stand up for herself and her kids and let you know what is acceptable or not.
Something always gets in the way of a man spending time with her.The child is already dealing with not having a mother and father married to each other and living together, and needs parental attention.That child does not need to compete with you, and you don’t need to compete with that child. So you’d bond with her children and then you (and the children) would have to endure the pain of losing or restricting that bond with each other.While the age of the child plays a factor, if you’re not looking for anything serious, you shouldn’t play the “I’ll figure it out” game with a ready-made family.Further, if you’re not a kid person or don’t want kids, you should not date a woman with kids to see if you’ll change your mind.